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Signs She Might Be Cheating
January 22, 2008… Or thinking about it
SHE’S ACCUSING YOU. "Often, when a woman accuses her mate of having others, she’s projecting her own feelings onto him." says Susan Heitler, PhD. If your girlfriend lacks trust in you, she maynot trust herself.
>SHE WANTS MORE. If she’s telling you she needs something else from the relationship, whether the request is for more intimacy or a stronger emtional connection, listen. "A woman really lets you know what she’s thinking about," says Al Cooper, PhD, director of the San Jose Marital and and Sexuality Centre. "Is she tells you she’s feeling unappreciated or unimportant, or wants more intimacy, it can be the last ditch effort before she embarks on an affair."
>SHE’S ONLINE. If you’re hearing "You’ve got mail" more than "I love you," she may be spending time searching the Web for someone to talk to. "Even if she doesn’t want to to cheat, the Internet is particularly seductive for women," says Cooper. "It makes men have to talk, and women a communicator."
>SHE’S LOOKING HOTTER THEN EVER. If she’s started something on the side, sudden changes in behavior or apperance (for the better) are common.
>SHE’S SAPPIER THAN EVER. "If she’s watching romantic movies and reading romantic books, the feeling she’s getting from them is feeding something inside of her, "says Pepper Schwartz, PhD, a relationship expert who’s online a perfectmatch.com. If your mate’s not expressing these emotions in your direction, she might be looking for a new leading man.
>SHE’S MORE THAN ATTENTIVE TO YOU. A study published in the Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin found that when a man’s girlfriend is cheating, she’ll start to make obvious attempts to increase his satisfaction in the relationship, as well as say derogatory things about her paramour. It’s a misdirection ploy to lessen your suspicions.
~ Ei guys, hope this would help you finds out if your girl is cheating on you… Women now are becoming aggressive, so be careful.. lol..
